77 – Debunking the Myth that Men Don’t Ask for Help, Therapy for Men, Sex & Porn Addiction – with Eric Pierni, RP, CSAT
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In this conversation we dig into the many myths and misperceptions around men and help seeking. I think it is a needed and important discussion that is often poorly addressed in today’s world. Eric Pierni, a registered psychotherapist and certified sex addiction therapist, owns Men Therapy Toronto, a clinic dedicated to providing a safe space for men to explore their mental health.
He runs a men’s group focused on healthy sexuality and masculinity, inspired by the lack of male-specific support spaces. Pierni specializes in male trauma, particularly sexual abuse, and emphasizes the need for a non-judgmental environment for healing. He discusses the stigma around compulsive sexual behaviour, the importance of support groups, and the need for a nuanced understanding of sexual sobriety. He also explores vulnerability, intimacy, and the concept of masculinity in healing.
Chapters
[00:00] Guest intro & hello
[02:30] Introduction and The Genesis of Men Therapy Toronto and the Need for Men’s Therapy
[07:11] The Myth of Men Not Asking for Help
[10:01] The Importance of Brutal Honesty and Connection in Therapy
[11:38] The Role of Shame Reduction in Healing
[20:22] Specializing in Male Sexual Abuse and Trauma
[23:11] Understanding and Treating Behavioural Addictions
[28:04] The Shame and Stigma of Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
[29:29] Defining Sexual Sobriety in 12-Step Programs
[30:52] The Power of Support Groups
[31:21] Developing a Supportive Internal Voice
[31:49] The Importance of Emotional Awareness
[34:54] Differentiating Between Anxiety and Addiction
[40:08] Exploring Vulnerability and Intimacy in Healing
[47:10] Redefining Masculinity and Overcoming Shame
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